Consent Orders and Stipulated Relief from Stay

Often the best outcome is a negotiated agreement rather than a contested hearing. How consent orders work, what they include, and how to negotiate terms you can actually meet.

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What Is a Consent Order?

A consent order -- also called a stipulated order, agreed order, or stipulation -- is a court-approved agreement between the debtor and a creditor that resolves a motion for relief from the automatic stay without a contested hearing. Both parties negotiate the terms, sign the agreement, and submit it to the court for approval.

Consent orders are extremely common in relief from stay litigation. Many experienced bankruptcy judges and practitioners consider them the preferred resolution because they provide certainty for both sides and conserve judicial resources. Instead of a hearing where one side wins and the other loses, both parties get something they can work with.

The court is not required to approve a consent order. The judge reviews the terms to ensure they are fair and consistent with bankruptcy law. In practice, courts almost always approve consent orders that are reasonable on their face.

What a Typical Consent Order Includes

While every consent order is tailored to the specific facts, most include these standard provisions:

Adequate Protection Payments

The debtor agrees to make specific adequate protection payments -- usually the regular monthly payment on the secured debt. The order specifies the exact dollar amount and the due date each month. For a mortgage, this typically means the regular PITI payment. For a car loan, it means the regular monthly payment.

Cure of Post-Petition Arrearage

If the debtor has missed post-petition payments, the order may require the debtor to cure those missed payments by a specific date -- either as a lump sum or in installments over a defined period.

Insurance Requirements

The debtor must maintain insurance on the collateral and provide proof of insurance to the creditor. The order may specify minimum coverage amounts and require the creditor to be listed as a loss payee or additional insured.

Automatic Relief Trigger

This is the most critical -- and most dangerous -- provision. The order states that if the debtor fails to comply with any of the terms (misses a payment, lets insurance lapse, etc.), the stay is automatically lifted without further court hearing. The creditor simply files an affidavit or declaration of default with the court, and relief becomes effective.

Notice Provisions

Some consent orders require the creditor to give the debtor a short notice period (often 5 to 10 days) before the automatic relief takes effect, giving the debtor one last chance to cure. Other orders provide for immediate relief with no notice. Negotiate for a notice-and-cure provision if possible.

Read every word. The automatic relief trigger is the most consequential provision in the consent order. Understand exactly what will trigger automatic relief, whether you get any notice or cure period, and what the creditor can do once relief takes effect. Do not sign a consent order you cannot comply with.

Benefits of a Consent Order

For debtors, consent orders offer several significant advantages over a contested hearing:

Risks of a Consent Order

Consent orders are not risk-free. Understand the downsides before agreeing:

The biggest risk: Agreeing to terms you cannot realistically meet. If your income is uncertain, if you are barely making ends meet, or if you have a history of missing payments, a consent order with tight deadlines and automatic relief provisions is a trap. Be honest with yourself about what you can actually do before signing.

How to Negotiate a Consent Order

Negotiation typically happens between the debtor (or debtor's counsel) and the creditor's attorney before or at the hearing. Here are practical tips:

Start with a Realistic Proposal

Before responding to the creditor's draft, calculate what you can actually pay each month after all essential expenses. Do not promise more than you can deliver. A consent order you cannot comply with is worse than no consent order at all.

Negotiate a Cure Period

Ask for a cure period in the automatic relief provision. Instead of immediate relief upon default, propose that the creditor must give you 7 to 14 days written notice of default, during which you can cure the missed payment. Many creditors will agree to a short cure period.

Specify Payment Method and Address

Include clear instructions on where and how to send payments. This avoids disputes about whether payments were received on time. If paying by mail, build in extra time for delivery.

Address the Arrearage Realistically

If you owe back payments, negotiate a reasonable cure schedule. Proposing to cure three months of arrears in one lump sum next week is not realistic. Spreading the cure over several months is more achievable.

Get Everything in Writing

The consent order must be in writing, signed by both parties, and entered by the court. Verbal agreements are not enforceable. Make sure the signed order matches what you negotiated.

Consider Your Chapter 13 Plan

If you are in Chapter 13, coordinate the consent order terms with your plan. The plan should provide for the creditor's claim in a way that is consistent with the consent order. Conflicting obligations create problems.

When to Reject a Consent Order

A consent order is not always the right choice. Consider fighting the motion at a hearing if:

See How to Respond to a Motion for Relief from Stay for a complete guide to contesting the motion.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a consent order in a relief from stay motion?

A consent order (also called a stipulated order or agreed order) is a negotiated agreement between the debtor and creditor that resolves the motion for relief from stay without a contested hearing. The debtor typically agrees to make specific payments by specific dates, and the creditor agrees to hold off on repossession or foreclosure as long as the debtor complies. The order is signed by both parties and entered by the court.

What happens if I miss a payment under a consent order?

Most consent orders include an automatic relief provision -- if the debtor fails to make a required payment by the specified date, the stay lifts automatically without further court hearing. The creditor can then proceed with repossession or foreclosure immediately. This is one of the most significant risks of a consent order: there is no second chance, no grace period, and no additional hearing. Comply with every term, on time, every time.

Should I agree to a consent order or fight the motion?

It depends on your circumstances. If you have strong defenses and can win at a hearing, fighting may be better. If your position is weak -- you have missed multiple payments with no realistic way to catch up -- a consent order may be your best chance to keep the property by committing to a concrete payment plan. Many experienced bankruptcy attorneys recommend consent orders because they provide certainty and often include better terms than a court-imposed order after a contested hearing.

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